XUDUOJIAZHANGZAIHAIZISHANGXIAOXUEZHIHOU,WANGWANGFAXIANHAIZISHANGKETINGKEBUWANZHENG、RONGYIZOUSHEN,ZUOZUOYEMOCENGMAHU、KANJUZIBIANKANBIANWANG……QISHIZHEIXIEDOUSHIHAIZIZHUANZHULIBUZUDEBIAOXIAN。
XUEXILIBUKAIZHUANZHULI。DUIHAIZILAISHUO,ZHUANZHULISHIHAIZINENGGOUGANZHIWAIBUXINXI、RENSHISHIWUDEZHONGYAOGONGJU,SHIHAIZIXUEXIZHONGDEJICHUNENGLI,LIANGHAODEZHUANZHULISHIXUEXIXIAOGUODEZHONGYAOBAOZHENG。
LIANHEGUOJIAOKEWENZUZHIRENDING,ERTONGDEZHUYISHUIPING,SHIDAOZHIXUEXICHAYIDEZHUYAOYUANYIN,JUGUOJIATONGJIJUSHUZITONGJI,ZHISHAO75%DEERTONGHUIZAIXUEXIDEGUOCHENGDANGZHONGCHUXIANZHUANZHULIBUJIZHONGDEWENTI。WUYONGZHIYI,YONGYOULIANGHAODEZHUYILI,SHIHAIZICHENGGONGDEJICHU,ZHIYOUJUBEILIANGHAODEZHUYIPINZHI,CAIYOUKENENGZAIZIJIGANXINGQUDESHIQINGSHANG,JIANCHICHIXUBUDUANDENULI,HUODECHENGGONG。
那么为什么这么多孩子都会出现专注力不足的问题呢?
ZAIPIYOUYANJIUZHONGXIN(Pew Research Center)YU2014NIANCHUJUDEYIGEBAOGAOZHONG,JIAZHANGMENRENGRANZUIQIDAIZAIZIJIDEHAIZISHENSHANGKANDAO“JINZE”YU“NULI”DETEZHI,DANGENGZHIDEYITIDESHUJUSHI:YONGYOUDAXUEXUELIDEJIAZHANGBIMEISHANGGUODAXUEDEJIAZHANGGENGZAIYIHAIZISHIFOUYONGYOU“CHIJIUXING”ZHEIYIYOUSHI,ERZHEIGEYOUSHIDEZHIGUANBIAOXIAN,BIANSHIZHANGQIDEJIANCHIYUDUANQIDEZHUANZHU。
LAOSHIJINGCHANGHUISHOUDAOJIAZHANGDEQIUZHU,YOUQISHIDINIANJIHAIZIDEJIAZHANG:“LAOSHI,WOJUEDEWOMENJIAHAIZIZHUANZHULIBUXING,ZENMEBAN?TAGANSHENMEDOUJINGBUXIAXIN,TAZUOSHIZONGBURENZHEN,TAXUEDONGXIDONGYILANGTOUXIYIBANGZI。”
RANERXUDUOJIAZHANGMEIYOUYISHIDAO,ZIJIZAISHENGHUODANGZHONG,MEIYOUZUODAO“BUDARAO”。
YINWEIYIGEBUGOUZHUANZHUDEHAIZISHENBIAN,WANGWANGYOUYIGEZONGSHIDARAOTADEDAREN。ZHEIYANGDESHIERZAIWOMENSHENSHANGLVJIANBUXIAN,YINWEI“GEBEIQIN”DECUNZAI,HAIYOUQIGAOFAYUJIALIDELAONIANRENQUNTI:
HAIZIZHENGZAIZHUANZHUDEWANWANJU,TURANYOUDARENDUANZHEGEWANCHUXIANZAITADEPANGBIAN:“LAIBAOBAO,CHIDIANDONGXI。”
HAIZIZHENGZAITUYAHUAHUA,TURANYOUDARENLUGUO,LENGBUDINGLAILEYIJU:“BAOBAONIZAIGANSHENMENI?”
HAIZIZHENGZAIWANYITAODARENKENENGBUTAIYUANYIRANGTAJIXUWANDEWANJU,DARENHUIZHIJIEXUANZEYIQITAWANJULAIZHUANYIHAIZIDEZHUYILI:“BAOBAONIKANNIKAN,ZHEIGEGENGHAOWANGENGYOUQUNI!”
ZUICHANGJIANDEYIGESHI,DANGHAIZIZAITANSUOMOUXIEDIFANG,HUOZHEZAIZUOYIXIEWOMENBUDAYUANYIRANGTAMENZUODESHIQINGDESHIHOU,YOUDEJIAZHANGHUIXUANZEBUYOUFENSHUODEZHIJIEBAHAIZIBAOZOU,DAIDAOXINDEHUANJINGZHONGQU。
ZHEIXIECHANGJINGDOUSHIDUIHAIZI“ZHUANZHU”DEDADUAN,QIEHAIZIZAICHENGSHOUZHEIZHONG“BEIDADUAN”DESHIHOU,TONGCHANGDOUWULIERBEIDONG。
YEXUYOUDEJIAZHANGBUYIWEIRAN:HAIZISHIZAIWANYOUXIWANWANJU,YOUBUSHIXUEXI,DARAOYIXIAHAINENGZENYANG?YOUMEIDANWUTAGANZHENGSHI。ZAISHUOLE,YOUZAOJIAOZHUANJIASHUOLE,ZHUANYIZHUYILISHIRANGHAIZILIKAIDANGQIANHUANJINGDELIANGHAOFANGFA。
QISHIZHEISHIYIGEHENYANZHONGDEWUQU。HAIZIKANSIZAIZUOWUZUQINGZHONGDESHIER:WANWANWANJU,FANFANSHU,ZUOXIEXIAOXIAODETUYA,HAOXIANGJIUSUANGANRAOGANRAOYEMEISHENMEDABULEDE,DANTAMENKANSIQINGSONGXIEYIKAIKAIXINXIN,KESHIZHEIXIEMAOSIBUZHIYITIDEXIAOSHI,QIAQIAYOUZHE“GONGYUSHANQISHI,BIXIANLIQIQI”DEBENZHI。
那么,如何才能培养好孩子专注力呢?
1.固定生活例程。
DANGTABUZHIDAOCHIWANFANYIHOUYAOZUOSHENME,ZAISHUAYADESHIHOUJIUHUIBAWANSHUIDANGZUOSHIYOUQUDEXINXIANGMU;DANGTADUIYUKANSHUHUOZHEBUKANSHUKEYIXUANZESHI,TADANGRANHUIXUANZEGENGQINGSONGDEBUKANSHU——CHUFEIKANSHUZHEIJIANSHIBENSHENSUODAILAIDEKUAILE,CHAOGUOLEZUOQITASHIDEKUAILE。
XIANGFAN,DANGHAIZIDEMEIRIJIHUASHIGUDINGDESHIHOU,TANENGGANDAOWEILAIKEYUQI,YEZHIDAOZUOWANZHEIJIANSHI,JIEXIALAIYAOZUOSHENMESHI;YEJIUGENGRONGYIZHUANZHUDAOYAOZUODESHIQINGSHANGQU。
2.提前讲清规则。
ZAIPEIYANGHAIZIDEZHUANZHULISHI,HENDUOQIANZHITIAOJIANSHIBIBEIDE,BIRUGENHAIZIJIANGQINGCHUGEZHONGGUIZE。
RUGUOHAIZIXIANGCHITANG,DANDARENQUERANGHAIZIQUKETINGNABEIZI;NEIMEHAIZISUIRANQUNABEIZI,DANTADEZHUYILISHIJIHAIZAI「CHITANG」ZHEIJIANSHISHANG,BINGQIEHUIYANZHONGGANRAOTADEXINGWEI。
SUOYIZAIQINZIGOUTONGHEPEIBANDESHIHOU,YIDINGYAOYIJIANSHI、YIJIANSHIJISHUOQINGCHU、GAOMINGBAI。QIANQITOURUDEGONGFUBUHUIBAIFEI,ERSHIHUIYIJIANJIANDIBANGZHUHAIZIPAICHUDIAOBUZHONGYAODEGUANZHU,CONGERRANGTANENGJIZHONGZHUYILI。
3.提供简单的选择
DANGHAIZIMIANLINYIGEFUZAHUANJINGDESHIHOU,ZHUANZHULILIKEFASANKAILAI,BIANDEJINSHEN,HUOZHESICHUTANSUO——FANERWANGJILEXUYAOZHUANZHUDESHISHENME。TONGYANG,DANGHAIZIMIANLINYIGEFUZAWENTIDESHIHOU,YEHUIGANDAOBUZHISUOCUO。
YOUXI、SHOUGONGDENGHUODONGHUIRANGHAIZIBIANDEZHUANZHU,JIUSHIYINWEIZHEIXIEHUODONGZUGOUJIANDAN,MUBIAOMINGQUE、GUIZEJIANDAN、YIYUCAOZUO;BINGQIEHAIYOUXIANGDANGJISHIDEFANKUI,NENGBUDUANTIXINGHAIZIXUYAOZHUANZHUXIAQU。
那么对于家长们来说,如何选择适合孩子的专注力培养活动呢?
YOUQINGHUADAXUE、BEISHIDAJIAOYUZHUANJIALIANHEYANFADEXINGHUASIWEIJIAOJU,TONGGUOSHOUNAOJIEHEDEMOSHI,YIGESHISIWEIYOUXIPEIYANGHAIZIDEZHUANZHULI。GENGYOUPEITAOXIANSHANGLUOJISIWEIKECHENG,ZHUANYELUOJISIWEIJIANGSHIPEIBANHAIZI,ZAIJIAOJUSHICAODETONGSHI,TISHENGHAIZIZHUANZHULI、SIWEILI、SHULILUOJI,TIQIANSHIYINGXUEXIJIEZOU。
GENGYOUXUEBABAMA“XIANSHENSHUOFA”,GANHUOMANMANXIANSHANGJIANGZUO,ZHULIJIAZHANGCHENGGONG“DUJIE”!
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